SYAAAAAAAAAAAMim! :D

this is for you :D ;

- remember that this person is not the end of the world, someone else may feel the way you do about YOU. just remember that its a crush - no matter how strong you feel about him..
- hmmm and when you start remembering a good time you had with your crush, convince yourself it wasn't all that great by remembering a much better time you experienced with someone else, like with your best friends, etc.....
- don't get angry at him, especially if he doesnt understand how deeply you feel for him, he didn't do anything wrong and getting angry is just going to push him further away and destroy your friendship.
- come to terms with the fact that it isn't his fault he wasnt attracted to you that way. i know this is DAMN hard, but a few tears (or a few buckets of tears), a few chick-flicks and treats and a few peppy songs you can dance to will keep you on your feet.
- don't spend too much time thinking by yourself or about yourself. you will most likely be thinking about him and start feeling depressed. hang out with friends.. :D
- keep in mind, if you are madly and hopelessly in love, be patient. don't be too clingy, but continue on as normal, being your wonderful self and show him how awesome you are. he might just realize one day that he has been blind this whole time and confess his love; after all, love is just friendship on fire...
- understand that if all else fails, think about how devastated you would be if the two of you started dating OR getting serious and then broke up. think of when you get that feeling. keep in mind how important your friendship is.. :D
- it's not healthy to keep hoping he will one day feel the same. try to emancipate yourself from him for a while so that you can rid yourself of your feelings for him, because if you don't, the time you spend around him will be tense and bittersweet...
- avoid thinking about him. you will only feel worse if you do. meet new people, talk to your friends, talk to ME :D

hmmm what you need to do :
- by talking to him frequently, you will see his negative qualities, which will be beyond what you can bear if you're not meant to be.
- look at him closely. find the physical flaws. and then think... "He's not that hot! What am I thinking?!" and find someone that you can get, and still be friends with your crush. * continued *
- or maybe just stop talking to him ! he isnt important! he is probably a person who doesn't appreciate you ONE BIT.
- ask yourself a reason why you want to get over him.. like " HE'S A JERK! "
- try to minimize contact with your crush.
- focus on your other interests.
do something you like! get your mind off of him and feel better about yourself.
find comic relief? haha! see the humorous side to things, read comic books or deep thoughts before you go to bed :D
cross out or erase his name anywhere you might have written it (e.g your notebook, your textbook, the wall of your bedroom, etc.)
AVOID all eye contact with him and try not to look longingly at his nose XD you'll be more likely to get over the crush if you aren't always staring at him (:
BELUM ! act a bit more unpleasant around him than your usual temperament. he may act unpleasant back and won't seem as attractive to you, but be warned, you may lose out on a relationship with another person if you are too mean ):
learn from the experience and come out stronger! :D
don't let him see how upset you are!
move on. make a promise to yourself to get over it. i know you're ready to take this step, so just do it.
and LASTLY;
reassure yourself. look in the mirror every morning, smile, and tell yourself, "You're worth it." & really mean it. you didn't do anything wrong, and right now there's someone else out there for you!!!! & it always helps to remind yourself that he is the one that is going to be missing out on you. :D
oh yeah, get it out. a good cry always helps. just let your feelings pour out and before you know it ; he will be just a thing of the past. :D that was what i did :D

so, yeah. thats all :D
seeya :D

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