Hello people! :D This post is basically for every girl whose heart is broken by some assholes that did not deserve them but they still love the jerks no matter what and can't get over them.

To start off, GET OVER HIM. He's not even worth it. He is not worth your time or your tears. Yeah you loved him, I know that. And I know you just can't see yourself with anyone other than him, I get that. I've been there, But why should you spend all your time sitting at home, bawling your eyes out and wondering where he is and who he is with? Do you honestly think he thinking about you? No. Sure, it hurts, the fact that he is out there falling in and out of love with other girls. Yeah, you're going to see him with one of his new girlfriends. Prepare yourself, 'cause straight up, it's going to hurt. He will hold her a little closer and squeeze her hand a little tighter just because he knows you're watching. He knows it's killing you, that's why he will do it.

So what if he doesn't talk to you? Do you honestly wanna be friends with an asshole like him anyways? Thing is, I know you still do. But give it time. Because all he would do is talk about his new girlfriend and just try and make you jealous. Do you really wanna hear that? No. Screw him and his girlfriend. He will be sorry. Trust me. When he finally sees you with some other guy, who's not him. With that huge grin on your face and your boyfriend holding you close, he will realise how happy you are now. And how happy your boyfriend is because he has you; the girl of his dreams. He will realise the huge mistake he made when he let you go, when he decided to choose her over you. When he decided he just did not love you the same. Trust me, he will be sorry.

So, don't go on spending nights waiting for that one phone call you know you're never going to get. Or that text message you know he will never send you, simply because he likes to ignore you. He likes to pretend he does not see you online, he does it out of spite just because he knows it's killing you. I'm not gonna lie to you. It will hurt, hurt alot. But it will hurt even more when you see her name and how much he loves her in his profile. It's all going to hurt. Knowing that you're not the girl that's making him smile. Knowing that you're not the first person he thinks of when he wakes up and the last before going to sleep. Knowing you're not the face on the background of his handphone anymore. Knowing you won''t be spending every single moment possible with him. Knowing there's not gonna be no more late night messages, arguing about who loves who the most.

And you know what, today, tomorrow, next week, months from now, you're phone will go off with a text message, you will instantly grab your phone hoping it's him saying he wants you back, wanting to give your relationship another shot. But trust me, he's got too much pride. Even if he wanted to get back to you, he wouldn't tell you. You're soon gonna realise he doesn't care about you anymore and he won't be the first person you call when you're upset. He won't be the one to put that smile back on your face. Yeah, it's gonna hurt. But you know what you're gonna do? You're gonna hold your head up. You're gonna show him you're better than him and you don't need him in your life. You're gonna prove to him that he made the biggest mistake of his life, letting you go and that you never really needed him anyways.

I hope this post has helped you, in some ways. 'Cause I don't wanna see you cry anymore. You're a strong girl. Move on, please. It's gonna take time. And I know I'm not the best person to give this advice. But I try. Please be alright (:

- Imissyouterribly.